Unit 19 lesson 3
If you saw a father patting his son on the back while smiling happily, what would you think was going on? You would probably think that th
e father was congratulating his son on doing something well, maybe passing an exam or winning a race. You would know what was going on because you the message conveyed by the father ’s body language. Across the world, a pat on the back and a smile usually means, “well done”. Body language is used every single day by people of different nationalities all over the world. It is a language without words that consists of , facial expressions and body movements that greatly add to - and sometimes even replace spoken language. Body language is used to communicate both attitudes and feelings from to anger just like any other language, but it differs from spoken language as it is not always . Somebody jumping for joy is easy to see while a raised eyebrow conveying doubt is easier to miss. People use body language . Someone who does not know the answer to a question will move their shoulders away from their body and then let them fall, meaning “I don’t know”. However, body language can be as well. A person who is feeling uncomfortable or nervous will often hold their body in a very manner and have a tight look about their mouths. They might also cross their arms and move in an way, a robot more than a human. They might not even realize how they are acting but their body language will tell anyone who look closely enough how they are feeling. Body language can therefore make people’s feelings more as although we can lie with words, it is not as easy to do so with our bodies. Learning to be aware your body language can be a very useful tool. For example, in a job interview, you will probably be feeling nervous but you won’t want to appear to be unrest. You will want to appear calm with as much as possible. by uncrossing your arms, you will look more confident. Body language can be very useful when people do not share a common spoken language. For example, in foreign countries, it is very easy to something simply by smiling and pointing at what you want. On the other hand, you can also easily show what you don’t like by shaking your head. You can the price by using your fingers and even ask questions by using your hands to the shapes of things you want although this can cause confusion and a few laughs too! However, body language can sometimes be . Although every culture around the world uses the same gestures and expressions, they use them in different ways. For example, an American tourist at a German hotel might give a ok sign by making a circle with his fingers. Unlike in America where this sign means everything is fine, in Germany, this gesture can cause . Another example is that in most cultures to nod one’s head means “Yes” and to shake one’s head means “No” while in some cultures the opposite is true. Regardless of these differences experts agree that across the globe there is one form of body language that receives – the smile. Smiling has a high success so never be afraid to use it – even when you’re nervous – and especially in foreign countries.