Family & marriage
From “passive marriage(被动婚姻 )” to “free love(自由恋 爱)” .. From the “love match(速配爱情)” to the “DINK family”( family”(丁克家族) .. ) From the “3S l
ady( lady(剩女)” pop into “I dominate my life( )” life(我 的生活我主宰)" ... Marriage is marked with their own brand of the times . New China was founded 60 years after the storm, the Chin es people's concept of marriage has undergone enormous ch anges.
An online poll about "naked weddings" on Sohu.com in 2009
47 percent of web users supported They think having a 'naked' wedding would be an option."
while 43 percent disagreed The remaining 10 percent were undecided.
When it comes to whether such marriage will be happy, 44 percent voted "Yes" and believed that marria ge is based on love not material goods, while the same p roportion of "No" voters doubted if this kind of marria ge without any physical foundations would work. “It is normal for young people. I think the whole society has a twisted concept over marriage and happiness," a respondent said.
I'm afraid I would not choose the naked marriage. Although love is the essential of marriage, the couple will not live a happy life without a material basis, especially in the society which is so materialistic nowada ys. It is unrealistic for many of us to talk about love without a slice of a bread, at least for me. We should keep in mind that marriage is a lifelong commitment that is serious to everyone and we could not treat it as a child’s play.
Nowadays, another remarkable phenomenon in Chinese relationships has emerged, namely shan hun or "lightning marriages". In this case, a couple gets married shortly after their first date.
Do u choose flash marriage?
I will probably say yes. Although the flash marriage has its drawbacks: rash, blind, we have to admit that there is love at first sight. And it is consistent with the high-paced life of modern society, closer to the reality as well. More and more flash marriages are good examples, couples could foster their feelings after the marriage, and they will also have a sweet period of their own.
The founder of Crazy English, known for his high-energy intensive language classes, has been accused of beating his wife. Rumors about Li Yang circulated on the Internet after a woman, believed to be his American wife Kim Lee, posted photographs on a Sina Weibo microblog showing injuries she alleged were caused by Li.
"It would be easier if love had just disappeared the minute that your hand struck my face, but it did not. Seeing that you were having make up applied for TV appearance while I was in hospital hurts more than your slamming my head on the floor.“
“Book:‘Hands are NOT for Hitting’ I am determined to teach my girls that hitting is wrong. Violence is not acceptable. We read. We discuss.”
Law of PRC on the Prevention and Punishment of Domestic Violence
Whether the naked marriage, flash marriage or domestic violence, are what we may encounter in the course of marriage. We should not love or reject blindly, nor yield or tolerate all the time. What we need is a rational look at the problem. And marriage is sacred and long-term, during which a common maintenance is an essential. We should take the responsibility for each other, just think twice before getting marriage or having a divorce. Otherwise, the offspring would be the victims of the marriage.